Bahá’í Neighbors

After a brief conversation he asked for one and I'm always up for a hug.

Husband and I raveled up through Crawford Notch, NH. Stopped at the Willey House (cafe and museum) Three people from Ohio were visiting family in New England and stopped for leg-stretch break and lunch. We talked a good 15 mins and I shared the sad story of the Willey family's demise in 1826. We chatted about Ohio and how both states have so much to offer visitors. The reason: to welcome guest into my "home" state and was curious about their travels.

There is a man I often see on the streets and I said hello to him and he immediately launched into his struggle of the moment. Normally I would have said something kind and quick and kept moving, but I paused went back and listened to him for a bit. It was enlightening for me and hopefully gave him a little positive to make it through his day. Next time I see him I'll ask his name to add a smidge of depth to our new relationship.

A former co-worker gave me some tree-ripened peaches from her own trees. Delicious! (We had the chance to hugs and converse.) Shared that gift with an 84 y/o lady on my street. She is now blind and unwell and will enjoy such sweet goodness. The reason: Sharing the kindness and generosity shown to me.

There was someone coming behind me at the store for a cart, so I gave them mine. I found myself actually slowing down specifically so I could do this for the challenge :)

Went to the local Goodwill store (Buy-the-Pound free-for-all) looking for knitting supplies and wool. While there I made a determined effort to have conversations with other people and ask questions. Helped two people find items in all the mix of donations. And they helped me. The reason? I enjoy the process more and more! People are often surprised

Tuesday was busy with appointments and shopping. I wanted to find one way to compliment / recognize the expertise of the staff at several doctor's offices or grocery customer service. The reason: My day was made easier by their work and shared a smile

My next-door neighbors' son -who lives with them- is a young man in his 20s. And I have never spoken to him in 3 years! He and I both now have pet rabbit(s). When walking down our street, I saw him in the backyard and consciously set aside anxiety about approaching him-a male person- out of the blue, knowing we could chat about rabbits. All went well. My reason: Young people need to know their neighbors are accessible, have common bonds and are interested.

Funny, I found that because I was doing this challenge, when the time came to offer, I immediately thought of being neighborly. I would have done it regardless, but it was an interesting thing to notice and I found myself exuberantly offering - like I was hoping to do a side job while at the gas station ;) Hah!

My 88 y/o neighbor and I have the same house number, but one street away. Over 25 years, her mail has often come to my mailbox. This mis-delivery is a chance for me to stop by and make sure she is doing well or listen to her misadventures. The reason: It is polite. More so, we have cultivated a sincere a sense of reciprocity and caring.

My friend is a busy professional with a husband, a puppy, and extended family. And often a bit downcast. Our infrequent, but intense "catch-ups" covers every topic and we usually circle back to our spiritual faith. We fuel each other with food, humor and compassion and good advice. My reason: All this makes me braver and keen to do the same with those on my street.

A big smile and a wave is so fun to give to a stranger! Couple people even called back well wishes :)

I hadn't seen my neighbor out walking his dog in a while and was afraid that maybe something had happened. Turned out he had to put his dog down :( The dog was so sweet and I was sad to hear, but I think he appreciated someone checking in with him and I plan to again soon :)

I normally would have just waived, but instead I took an extra minute to chat and had a nice conversation... also heard about what their kids were also up to these days. Seems good for the soul, I plan to do more of this.